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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]i would start with not drawing attention to it and allowing her to see YOU take the blame and show its no biggie. Say out loud "I can't believe I forgot to salt the past water! Good thing we can add some now!" "I forgot to sign the permission slip, thank you for reminding me Larla!" DO this over and over again. Not getting made and owning up to small/big mistakes. Then when she has a small mistake, say [b]"Larla, I see the laundry did not get taken to your room, good thing you can do it now. Thank you!"[/b] DOn't try to point out every instance, but draw attention to ones you think wouldn't bruise her ego so much to admit and build from there. Also, therapy will likely help [/quote] Not op, but thank you for this language to help avert reflexive blaming or defensiveness.[/quote]
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