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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are so, so many stories about the strife between mothers and what I assume are daughters here. 
As a man, I have always been perplexed by the push and pull that seems to exist between daughters and moms. It's like they both thrive on making each other happy, and yet also thrive on making each other miserable. 
I have two brothers, a sister,  and a brother in law, and we have something in common: while we don't ignore our mothers and we love them, we give them attention on our terms not theirs. 
You know what the result is? For the men, our moms want to please us. They want more attention then we are willing to give, but they have come to accept that we aren't going to call every day. We aren't going to return texts with lightning speed. We aren't going to cave when our mothers try to guilt trip us.
My wife and sister, on the other hand, go out of their way to please our their respective mothers. They shower them with affection, they cater to their whims, they indulge them even when they are nasty, and they wind up wondering why our moms seem to crave the male's affection more than theirs. 
I wonder if anyone else sees this dynamic and, even moreso, if moms with both sons and daughters feel the same way about their boys[/quote]
Troll posing as a male now.
Still lame op troll, still lame. [/quote]

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