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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm so sorry you're in this situation. He is trying to scare and control you with the threat of divorce and not letting the assessors in house. My DH makes similar threats and I've learned to threaten to expose his behavior to people on the outside. This is the only thing that makes him back off because he wants to come off as such a wonderful dad. 
Calmly tell him the pediatrician is concerned and it is now documented in records. If DH would like the appt canceled, he can call and explain this to the Early Start people. If your child ends up needing help later, he is the responsible party for delaying it. If he doesn't cancel the appt,  then he can be present on day of appt and he himself can ask them to leave. If he's like my DH, he talks a big game but is charming and on his best behavior around others. 
Seriously thought, just stop debating it with him. He's just looking for reasons to be mad at you. 
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You told her to explain it to him and then to stop debating it with him…

OP do NOT let him cancel the appointment. He doesn’t have to go if he won’t do that. Screw him. [/quote]

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