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Reply to "Decision time: balancing concern for the kids with managing an overly controlling and critical partner"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As you know, it can take months to get appointments related to delays and neurodivergence. And it's much better to be diagnosed as early as possible. You won't be blowing up your marriage over this appointment. [b]YOUR MARRIAGE IS ALREADY BLOWN UP.[/b] You MUST at least start with individual therapy ASAP. What you described is not a normal or acceptable way to interact within a marriage. I don't think you understand how abusive it is.[/quote] I came to say the same thing. The fact that you’re concerned about the effect going through with this appointment will have on your marriage shows how far gone you are. Please, please seek professional help. Your husband is abusive and it is definitely going to affect your kids even if he doesn’t say such things to them. You grew up in a house like this - how could you be willing to subject your children to the same thing?!?[/quote]
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