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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You said “ He was a grumpy tween and then he turned 13 and we went away on vacation and[b] he came back as a stranger[/b]. I truly don’t recognize him anymore.” What happened on that vacation? Did someone hurt him? Many kids shut down after a trauma and parents don’t know it happened. You also said he changed with the phone. Did he see something that traumatized him? I know many adults still working through traumatizing internet exposures. Don’t call him spoiled. He needs help. [/quote] We went to Asia for spring break. It was a long flight. I do not think anything traumatizing happened to him. I cannot comment on phone and internet if anything happened on the internet. I do see him snapping his friends on Snapchat. I am his friend on Snapchat and I can see him post happy birthday Jack on his stories. He used to have friends over all the time but he hasn’t had friends over for a while. I don’t know what is going on with him. Last week, I picked him up from school and I could tell he was unhappy. I kept prying and he told me to leave him alone. I was worried and Dh said some kids probably were mean to him. DH said middle school boys can be jerks and he would be fine. I have friends who tell me various stories of their kids having bad experiences in elementary, middle and high school. My daughter tells me everything. My boys don’t share much.[/quote]
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