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[quote=Anonymous]So what was the stuff you found that wasn't innocent and innocuous? We also have a large friend circle in our neighborhood and I have texts with some of the men that don't include our spouses. I wouldn't care if anyone read them because there is nothing going on. I can't even think of a joke that would be in there that could be considered to be an issue. We also don't text very frequently, so if she's talking to this guy daily, that would be a lot, in my opinion. In terms of being in his orbit, is your wife seeking him out and avoiding you? If my husband and I are at an event with everyone (which happens a lot, we have lots of get togethers with our group), I wouldn't avoid him but have for sure ended up having conversations with the other husbands instead of my own at certain points. There are some that I just get along with really well. I don't think anyone has ever perceived that anything is going on with me and any of them. One of the wives in our group likes to fish (she's the only one), so she goes out with the husbands to do that all the time. It doesn't bother me at all because I don't want to go so I'm just happy that my husband is doing something fun with his friends, even if one of them is a woman. Honestly, it's possible that someone hinky could be going on when they head out at 4:30 am and get back late at night and stop for drinks and food during the day but I can't expend any energy worrying about that when I have no reason to suspect anything.[/quote]
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