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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can't force her to stop seeing him. It won't work, it'll backfire, and she'll stop telling you or your DH things that bother her.

You can - and should - talk to her about her values, what she thinks makes a good person, whether she wants to surround herself with people who make choices like that. You can say all the things you are worried about - her getting in trouble by association, etc. Walk her through the consequences. It's her decision, but you still have a role in helping her figure it out.[/quote]

Thanks - this has been my battle. I know I tend to react emotionally. And this is a delicate situation so I need to handle it right. She's a smart girl so I'm just shocked at her choices and very disappointed.[/quote]

I would talk to her like an adult.  Let her know that you will respect her choices and in turn she will need to respect yours.  You and your DH have no tolerance for stealing and her BF will not be allowed in your house without an escort.  This includes the bathroom - take it or leave it.

I would also tell her that if she suspects him of stealing something in a store that she needs to excuse herself and wait outside so she does not get caught up in an arrest.

All you can do at this point is guide and give advice.  [/quote]

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