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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I would not have a third in your situation.

Not worth a deterioration in health, it always a roll of the dice after 35 when you already have two healthy kids, and never a good idea to have the motivation being "try for a girl" even if you'd be "ok with a boy."[/quote]

OP here. I would be happy regardless, but I think it's natural to want a different gender. If I had a boy and a girl now, I would probably want a third. 
When we go to events, I get lonely, and I see that daughters tend to be more emotionally present for their moms. When we go to events, they tend to be separated by gender, as I am Muslim. I am not only thinking of having another child for holiday parties, but I get more emotional during the holidays. During Ramadan, there is more time to reflect, and I have been thinking about it for the last two years. If I didn't have health problems, I would have tried for another already.  [/quote]

You are saying that you desperately want a girl and you are also saying you would be Ok with a boy. This is not logical or possible. I would focus your energy on accepting what you have and trying to figure out how to make it work. [/quote]

OP here. Please stop trying to cause trouble. We know it will be a girl or a boy, but both genders are possible. And we will be happy with both, but I think it's only natural to hope for the gender you do not have.

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I totally understand your position and I think you should do IVF and gender selection to ensure you have a girl. [/quote]

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