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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it might be how your asking op?

I generally agree with you that it's good to have these conversations.

But the tone of your post is off putting and judgemental if that's how rs coming across in real life I can see how he might be reluctant to answer.

There's also factors such as how long you have been dating and if you're exclusive. Nin my view you're not entitled to deeply personal information in the first month or two of dating.

You know the basics he was divorced and has kids.

What else have you learned?

The attitude you project in your post also makes it seem as you think you are perfect and a divorce is a huge character flaw?.  What are you offering about yourself?. What questions are you answering?[/quote]

Divorce isn’t a character flaw, but someone who is divorced with kids is bringing a massive weight into a relationship with a childless person. I can’t overstate the impact it will have on the relationship, financially, logistically, emotionally.  If OP is dating for marriage and to have her own kids, she may not want to waste months on what is most likely a dead end relationship for her. [/quote]

If all op can get is a divorced father she might want to hop if her high horse[/quote]

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