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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No idea what is meant by authentic self. I suspect it's a red herring people use to deny what the real problem is. You're just tired. The issue isn't the workplace but you.[/quote] A lot of us have authentic selves that don't jive with corporate workplaces. Your authentic self is who you are with your spouse or best friend. I'm witty and snarky. I tell funny stories. I can't stand slackers, but at work I have to patiently guide the slackers along and counsel them to improve. I'd probably rather yell, but I would never at work. I think a lot of POC have different selves too. One of my coworkers has an accent and dresses completely different than she does at work. Even styles her hair differently.[/quote] Yeah, can’t belch, curse and talk loud sports 24/7 or about your online dating successes at work. Get over it. Also can’t have mental breakdowns, lose your notebook daily, sit yoga style at meetings, having crying fits, demand special smelly lunches or bring a dog or big stuffy in to the office for mental help. Get over it. Baseline is be professional at work. Or quit and go work at a not professional place, smaller group, no clients, no managing people, kumbaya. [/quote]
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