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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She sees you at a threat. [/quote]

NP. I doubt it.

OP, for whatever reason her DH can't stand you and she feels awkward about it and keeps mentioning it. You probably said something. He seems fine because he's politer than she is. [/quote]

NP. Well, it didn't take long for the classic "It must be the OP's fault" post to appear.

Zero reason to assume that OP "said something" or that there is any real basis for the DH's supposed dislike. Note the "supposed." OP does not know, nor do we, whether the DH actually dislikes her or even said the things his wife is claiming he said. You, PP, just want to bash an OP. Typical response on here, and typically fact-free.

To the OP: Since she sounds like a mere acquaintance whom you see around, and she and DH are not actually your friends, I'd shrug this off as being about her insecurity and not about you at all. Don't let it make you think you did anything specific. Even if her DH does dislike you, what does it matter, since they're not a couple you even know very well? Change the topic if she brings up this nonsense again, and generally avoid them. Don't feed her insecurity and her odd statements by reacting to them, beyond a cool stare and a change of topic every time. [/quote]

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