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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would ditch them both at this point. 
I’ve got 2 friends that don’t like each other. I would never invite one then just sneakily tell them other friend is going. That’s insensitive. Don’t know if there is a specific word for friend A though, other than manipulative l. [/quote]
Op here. If A is insensitive, then that's not a quality I want in a friend. If she is manipulative, that's even worse. I honestly don't know if she actually likes me or if she is bringing me round for B to take jabs at.[/quote]

There’s your answer. If you trust A so little that you can envision her doing this, then you might as well let the friendship go. You don’t trust her or have a strong connection. 
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No adult is going to spend a bunch of time and effort to bring someone around to be a punching bag. It sounds like insecurity. OP said she hasn’t said she dislikes B directly, to my understanding. A likes OP. A likes B. She wants to hang out with the people she likes. Take it at face value, assume the best, and go from there.

I used to have a friend like OP, who made everything about her like this. She thought anything people said or posted or did without her was an attack on her. It’s just that I couldn’t think about her at all times, and it ruined our friendship. It’s a real shame, because I cared very much about her. [/quote]

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