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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I dated a man like this. I remember one particular story - there was this little gift box full of Christmas cookies on his dining table. This was in March. He claimed he had no idea they were there. And had no shame about it - like [b]he was a passive observer of his own house. [/b]This was an urban home - not a huge palace where you never see your own dining room. He was a successful attorney. I am glad I didn’t marry him. My husband is a mess in other ways, to be clear. But ADHD for me was hard to watch.

If you don’t have kids, OP, I might bounce. [/quote]
Amazing and correct observation to make while dating. And he owned a house! Must have been over age 30 or 35… [/quote]

I’m the PP and yes, the Christmas cookies in springtime man was 34 or 35. There were so many moments with him that had a similar vibe. He could also be very very fun, like many ADHD guys. He wanted something serious, allegedly. Would have been an absolute nightmare to parent children with. I now have two little kids and I can picture how different my life would be with someone who can’t even manage himself. I know I’d be mad all the time! I hope OP doesn’t have kids yet. [/quote]

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