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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again. No cheating. I do avoid the conversations with him because it escalates to verbal abuse and threats of violence. we just need to separate but we can't even come to agreements on how that will work. [/quote]

Are you in counseling?  This is a situation for professionals to deal with, not online discussion.  Why do you need an “agreement” with someone who is threatening you?  Just leave.[/quote]

We have kids. Do I leave them in the house? Do I take them with me? [/quote]

You need professional help to determine if there is an actual danger here and a safety plan.  You are saying your DH is threatening you and depriving you of sleep.  Online strangers are not qualified to tell you what to do.[/quote]

I am qualified because this was me 15 years ago. Refusing to let you sleep and verbal abuse are among the first signs of the mask coming off. Therapy is useless. Quietly get your ducks in a row to file for divorce. First, find and consult with a lawyer, using cash if you can. Gather all important documents and put in a safe place. Do not believe a word he says and at the first threat, call the police, have him removed and get a 72 hrs restraining order and then go back for the hearing for 2 years, and then permanently. Then file. [/quote]

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