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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Spouse won't let me sleep. It's been almost 3 hours. Demands we work through issues right now. We have so many issues and its been years of turmoil. I don't want to talk anymore. I just want to sleep. I threatened to call nonemergency police because I feel desperate. Is this abuse? Could they help me? Spouse says they will document that I called for no reason. Is this true?[/quote] This sounds like abuse from both sides (refusing to talk to your partner/stonewalling is also abusive behavior). Don't threaten, do. "I'm setting a timer for 5 minutes, and then I'm going to sleep alone in the guest room. If you interrupt me or keep me from sleeping, I will call the nonemergency line" and then actually do it. But if you're to this point, I agree with a pp: conversation ended a long time ago. You need to see a counselor to work on setting better boundaries (boundaries are for you/what you will do, not to control others) and contact an attorney to discuss your options for leaving.[/quote]
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