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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^Ugh — do men really fade if you say you only want sex in the context of a relationship/ exclusive situation?

Any guy who steps away if I say that is welcome to go. Someone who really likes me is not going to leave.[/quote]

OP here: I was in a long distance long term relationship before. That person didn't pull away, he in fact made it possible for the circumstances to change. This person didn't text me once or checked on me at all while on his travels. I was going through a really difficult custody related stuff with my ex which is now resolved. This makes me not want to follow up: this person seems to be very easy to give up on something good, when circumstances are not favorable. [/quote]

You told him no, and wanted different things. If he continued to pursue you he would look like a creep.

You can reach out, but only if you are ok with a casual relationship and having sex. Otherwise, don't bother. [/quote]

He was saying he was interested to  have a long term relationship ideally but he was in the middle of other life changing events back then. 
Don’t you think if we had sex now it still would remain casual, because he didn’t attempt to maintain contact while was away? [/quote]

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