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[quote=Anonymous]Things you can suggest doing (perhaps write a list and ask whether sibling would find this helpful):
-Make sure you have a reserve of sick and vacation leave so you can fly out if needed. Be prepared to take FMLA if you need to.
-Order groceries to be delivered (ask if they would like to give you a list, or if they would like you to meal plan and decide what to order)
-Order supplies as needed (diapers, masks, toiletries, whatever)
-If not already done, offer to put all the utilities and maybe other bills on automatic draft so bills don't need to get paid 
-Offer to go out as least a couple times a year to give sibling time off
-Be aware that when you visit your mother may rally and may appear better than she is day to day. It is common for out of town relatives to see a better version of the parent than local relatives
-Try not to be critical of local relatives' decision making
-Say thank you for all they are doing
-Ask if there is anything you can do to be helpful
-When you visit, do handy work around the house. Change light bulbs, etc.[/quote]

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