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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How good friends is he with the kid?[/quote]

Ummmmmmm NP……but Isn’t this a question best answered by the evidence that he was not invited to the kid’s bar mitzvah and most of the other kids in the class were?[/quote]

Well, we have posters lamenting "exclusionary behavior." Not only do you not have to invite everyone, you really don't have to invite someone you haven't exchanged 10 words with. I was giving the benefit of the doubt that there is some reason to be justified in feeling heartbroken. There isn't.[/quote]

DP. You are speaking as an adult. We are trying to help the mom deal with her kid. When you're a kid it isn't about being justified or not being heartbroken. He just is. The mom can help him see that he isn't good friends with the boy, so it makes sense he wouldn't be invited, sure. But I bet there are a bunch of kids who aren't best friends who are invited.

The issue is helping the kid get the skills to be included, if that's what he wants. [/quote]

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