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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can't he sell the cabin? [/quote]

The living situation was already fraught with significant tension (see here: https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1174345.page).

OP here - I can't imagine FIL selling the cabin he poured his heart and soul into. Also, he financed his original home several times to pay for the building costs of the cabin, upgrades, etc. [/quote]

So you think the "only possible way" is to sell the primary home that 4 people, including BIL and SIL, are living in. Because he poured his heart and soul into the cabin? OP, I think there's some denial going on here.

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Denial has been going on for years in their family. Denial of the seriousness of MIL's health conditions and the failure to make any kind of plan for her ongoing care. Denial that four adults living together would be a bad plan.

FIL would probably try to convince my husband OR my other SIL/BIL to buy his cabin from him before he sold it to unknown buyers.[/quote]

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