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Reply to "New girlfriend is blocking access to my best friend "
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it sounds like your friend's girlfriend is very toxic and hopefully he will figure that out and move on from her. But it also sounds like you have an unhealthy attachment to him - like you are keeping him in your back pocket as a spare. You glossed over your husband's feelings about this friendship. Is he really okay with it? Does he maybe not mind it because your exBF gives you all the emotional connection and attention you need and that lets him off the hook? Whatever the case, you should no expect this level of connection with your exBF to last forever. Many very healthy women would not be okay with it if they got together with him - they want that attention and energy going to their relationship, not your friendship - even if they are prettier than you and not insecure about cheating potential. It's really probably time for you to make some space and let the apron strings loose a little. You don't need to mother him forever and he'll never be truly sober if he's leaning so much on you.[/quote]
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