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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a married woman.

In the last year I’ve made friends with this wonderful friend (woman) and I find myself so attracted to her. To her energy and vibe and beauty…

I can’t say I want to have sex with her at all but that I’m just so attracted to her energy.
I want to be with her all the time… way more than I want to be with my husband. she’s fun, we can talk for hours, and she makes me laugh harder than anyone I’ve known.

Is this just life as a married woman with girl friends???

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Wanting to be with her all the time — that means you are infatuated with her.  If she’s beautiful and charismatic and she shines that spotlight onto you, it’s a powerful thing. My ex had a beautiful younger mom friend like this, who had tons of close family and friends, so my ex always felt like she wanted more than her friend would give her.  But if this friend, who was totally straight, had tried to seduce my ex, there is no question in my mind that she would have succeeded in a heartbeat — even if it was 10am in the locker room after their workout.[/quote]

I have close friendships with women but I've never felt this way about another woman.

I think that you can be straight and still once in awhile be attracted to a woman. I also think sometimes women don't realize they're bi until the right woman comes along. And I think attraction can be sexual or emotional or mental, and then lead to something more, or not.

I had a friend who divorced her husband and came out as lesbian. She'd said she'd considered herself bi before, but was identifying more as lesbian. She said her relationships with women were deeper emotionally. I understood that while also not desiring it for myself. So to me, it sounds like if you're drawn so much to someone, you may at least be bi.

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