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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agree with letting it go. There were years of relationship dynamics that predate your marriage that went into this. You can’t put the weight of this on you. It’s likely if you HAD told your husband, he would have also viewed the text as manipulation and not reached out to his dad, which would make him feel even worse than he does now. It sounds like the death was unexpected, that’s always hard because you don’t get closure. You’re assuming if you’d told your DH he would have taken quick action to reach out to his dad before he died and now have closure… I think that’s unlikely. If anything, I think you probably saved DH from additional guilt. [/quote] I agree with this. You’re saving DH from guilt. And I agree with another PP that the text was manipulative to start with. Why not send to DH? why not say he’s in the hospital? You tried to make the right call at the time.[/quote]
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