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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you might be getting a little ahead of yourself. At this stage, I think you can just tell him that you enjoy his company and would like to keep seeing him, but are not interested in being exclusive.

If he has questions about why, or about timeframes, you can decide if you want to answer them - and he can decide if this is something that he wants to pursue, too.

I don't think you need to tell him that you will never, ever want to settle down with him because he has a kid. Just that you don't see yourself settling down or getting exclusive any time soon.[/quote]

But I would be sexually exclusive with him and would want us to exchange STD panels. I do test after each partner, and dont want to sleep in parallel with someone who sleeps with others in parallel. I don't mind him going out with other women socially, of course but I would need "heads up" if he wants to sleep with someone else[/quote]

Honestly, OP, this doesn't sound remotely feasible. But just tell him that, then - that you are up for being sexually exclusive but still want to go on dates with other people. See what he says. I am a very trusting person and I just can't imagine trusting someone inside of that plan - but maybe you and he are different kinds of people.[/quote]

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