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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't categorize getting coffee as a date. At most, it's an informal way of checking someone out to see if they are date-able.[/quote]

And that's another reason why OP shouldn't do it. This isn't seeing a friend as some here are assuming. She's framed it clearly as a "date" or let's say, "seeing if he's date-able" in her mind.

OP, you do realize that your pursuit of that butterfiles-in-the-stomach crush feeling is basically not the innocent "I miss romance!" thing you think it is--right? It's the thin end of the wedge, so to speak. What is your plan if you go on this coffee date and the man wants to see you again, then wants to meet "just for dinner" when your DH isn't around, and then, and then....? You can sit here now and say confidently, "Oh, I just want one hour of flirting and feeling desirable and I'd never go on a REAL date!" blah blah. Easily said now. The man might have other plans for where he wants thing to go, and you haven't given a thought to whether that would influence you. I'd wager you'll claim you couldn't be influenced. Please don't be that naive. [/quote]

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