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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I still don't know what pick me is exactly as I've heard different things but whatever Larla is dealing with demonstrates VERY common patterns of behavior. Dd will be served much better to recognize them and end the relationship despite any gossipy fallout. With friends like Larla, who needs enemies! Wouldn't this age be better served with friends who don't spread gossip whether you're on their good side or not? Lara's insecurities are out of control, why is your dd putting up with it? It's fine to distance yourself from the family no matter how deep your friendship has been. It will hurt and be awkward but maybe they'll come around again and if they don't you'll know it was hanging off the premise of your dds' friendship. Nothing is worse than putting up with some toxic type to avoid gossip fallout, that is how those people continue to thrive. If she does not learn now to recognize and cut out someone with repeating disrespectful behavior, she won't be as confident avoiding it in the future. As a kid she is learning, teach her to not tolerate this or she'll remain the wishy washy "don't rock the boat" type scared of the reactions of unstable people.[/quote]

What Is a “Pick Me”? A “pick me” is a slang term used to describe a person, typically a female, who seeks attention and approval, often from men. These individuals may go to great lengths to appear more desirable to men than other women. The behavior associated with being a “pick me” can be problematic, as it often involves promoting misogynistic views or undermining other women to gain favor with men.[/quote]

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