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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First off, you are too involved in the minutia. I get it - I made that mistake at one point.

I’ll say this - my best friend and I had daughters who were best friends, and I think our friendship is why they continued being friends years past their expiration date (we spend so much time together, went on trips etc that it was very inconvenient for them to not be friends). Because my best friends daughter was similarly toxic to my daughter and I wish I had completely disengaged and let them fall apart on their own.

[b]I’d almost say to stop pushing so hard for your daughter to be the bigger person constantly. The other kid isn’t going to[/b].

Worse case, start prepping her to disengage in high school which is soon I assume.[/quote]

Thanks. This is helpful, especially the bolded. I do think I am always harping on my DD to be kind and understanding [i]no matter what[/i] and I don't think that's serving the situation. DD probably needs to be more honest, and if that offends Larla, it is what it is. Maybe a resolution will come out of it, too. Thanks again.[/quote]

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