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[quote=Anonymous]I do this. Most of my friends went to law school, med school, or shifted to tech careers around 30, or waited longer to have kids, so as our paths diverged over the last decade it's making the "what ifs" look much more poignant. I COULD have done those things. I was smart enough. But I didn't, more out of ignorance than real reasons, and now I can't. Honestly, I just need to find other wheels for my anxiois brain to run on. Travel planning is a great one for me right now because it gives me something to look forward to in the future, rather than dwelling in the past. I mean researching destinations I won't have time to go to for years, taking day and weekend trips, and financial planning for big future trips can make it take up more mental space than just the next vacation. [/quote]
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