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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I always thought I could get a high value man (upper caste (I’m an immigrant) and high earning professional with decent looks) and worked really hard to try and find one. Things didn’t work out so at 31 I decided, based on all the rejections I faced from that type of men, to settle for someone who i previously would have rejected. The evidence showed me that in fact, I could not do better. [/quote] Many women who remain single and claim there are no suitable partners available, have a false sense of self worth. Good for you for being pragmatic and i mean it. [/quote] Thank you. It wasn’t easy because I genuinely thought I could find someone who met the definition of high value I wrote. I still feel a pang of regret sometimes when I see wives of doctors in our community not having to work but I know that was never an option for me. My kids are worth it, plus I was forced to ramp up my career and actually enjoy it now. [/quote]
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