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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Life isn't safe. You may suffer from anxiety [/quote] This comment is so so mean. Yes, OP, I feel the same way as you. Yes, I think it is appropriate when the actual things are happening as you describe. Look, any of us could also be suffering from anxiety but that does not take away from the legitimate concerns we may have about the safety of our SN child.[/quote] I don't think the PP was wrong. I used to feel the same way as OP until finding and working with a great therapist. She really helped me to face the fact that all humans face the types of challenges that my child may face and my child's disabilities don't exempt them from this. And it's not realistic for me to see my role as a parent as being about preventing them from encountering bad things in the world. And now that I've moved past that mindset, everything is so much easier. [/quote] And I say this as a parent of a largely nonverbal child with serious intellectual disabilities and so is particularly vulnerable. [/quote] Ok but I think it is fair to have particular concerns in light of how poorly so many institutions (schools, etc) act with respect to meeting the needs of our children. Yes, other children can be at risk because schools, etc are incompetent but special needs children face elevated risk. Such concerns are fair and appropriate and not just the result of an anxiety disorder. [/quote]
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