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[quote=Anonymous]I'm the PP you are refering to. Good thing you are aware of the possiblility. I had no idea what I was getting into. One of my kids has SN and I became a SAHM. I think my vulnerability was also a trigger. I had never had any of the delusions about the ILs so when it hit it was a shock and the feelings he should have had for them got transfered to us. I've talked to a lot of mental health folks and none was all that surprised, just wanted to give the caution that I wish I had had. I'd also have clear boundaries about what you will and won't accept. If he crosses them you need to not think about his background but act. Your kids are watching it all. My kids' lives became like something on Jerry Springer for a while and I so wish I had been more prepared. [/quote]
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