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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi OP, thanks for doing this! I’m a former donor and I wonder about my recipient family(ies) all the time and hope they are happy and well. So, for one of my donations, the clinic inadvertently discharged me home with a form that had the intended father’s name and address on it. I still have it in a file cabinet somewhere. This was from about 15 years ago when anonymous donations were the norm and semi-anonymous or open donations were pretty much unheard of. Would it be horribly intrusive and unwelcome to send a letter just saying “Hello, I might be your child’s donor. I’m open to contact, but please disregard if you prefer not to hear from me”? I should probably have shredded it a long time ago and pretended I never saw it, but I’ve held onto it all these years. I believe the recipients were a same sex couple or possibly single father. Any thoughts?[/quote] Oh, please don't do this. 🤢[/quote] Most likely they never told the kids. But one of the DNA sites will be how they find out...[/quote]
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