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[quote=Anonymous]I understand that you don’t want your kid to be labeled as a racist, but I really think that you have to understand this as a sign of how deeply hurtful this was to the other child. Trust me the other child’s parents are also having some difficult conversations trying to convey that their daughter’s feelings are valid, they have her back, and that she’s safe, but that she has to let it go. Continuing to escalate the situation until you achieve some perfect scenario which I don’t think you’ve articulated in your mind, never mind whether it’s realizable, will just victimize BOTH children over and over again. Don’t do that. But DO express to the school that some inappropriate stuff is going on during aftercare - you should be asking the person who is supposed to be supervising to take some responsibility, not righteously lobbing some of yours (that you carefully and thoughtfully took) back onto that girl. [/quote]
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