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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m kind of with you, OP.  My husband and I lived apart for a year a few years into our marriage.  It was job related and didn’t have anything to do with our relationship.  
If I found out that he slept with another woman during that year, I wouldn’t be thrilled, but I wouldn’t see it as a huge betrayal.

On the other hand, if we were living together and raising kids together, and he just wasn’t showing up for parenting obligations, he was regularly lying to me about where he was, and he wasn’t treating me nicely, then it could easily be marriage ending.  [/quote]

Then just divorce. What was the point of being married if you didn’t mind if he slept around? [/quote]

There are a lot of reasons to be married.  We love each other.  We are best friends.  We have children together.  We were going to be living together again once I closed my practice and got the house sold.  Our finances are mingled.  We like being part of a family together.

The love, being best friends, and like being part of a family together are not true if you feel fine with him sleeping with other women. You are confusing those feelings with something else but it’s certainly not love.

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