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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would call that cousin and ask for specifics as to why the whole family hates me.  Then I would seriously analyze what they said.  I might also ask other family members if they agreed.  Then, if I actually liked my family, I'd try to improve the relationships by taking their concerns to heart.  If I didn't actually like my family I would ignore the whole thing and block my cousin's number, email and texts.[/quote]

Seriously, why?!?

OP, you said you are not close to your family and that not many came to your wedding 18 years ago.  Your cousin literally called to hurt your feelings!  Why do you even want to know someone like that - family or not?!  I would focus on the family you created with your husband and build a nice ‘family community of friends’.  Forget the a$$holes you might share one drop of blood with.

If you’re close to your parents and siblings, maybe they can figure out why your extended family are such jerks - but watch out because they may be the reason that the extended family doesn’t like you.  There might be some rumors that you said something about someone or blah blah blah.  If that is not the case AND you are curious, ask your sibling or parents.[/quote]

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