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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My son sleeps in one bed, the two of them sleep together in the other.
In the past, she's walked around in her underpants and a tee. In a hotel room.
Our pediatrician already wrote my ex a letter stating this was not ideal. 
It happened again this week.

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OP, is your son really uncomfortable with it, or are you the one who has the issue? Different families have different rules when it comes to things like this. Personally, I would not see it as an issue unless I had other reasons to mistrust the ex or the step-mom. And actually going as far as having a pediatrician write your ex a note about your son's discomfort with nudity, I don't know. That in itself would embarrass the average teenager far more than seeing his stepmom's panties. And it makes you sound not entirely rational. Please don't take this the wrong way. You have a long and painful history with this man (or else you wouldn't be divorced) and throwing a nearly grown child and a stepmom into the mix, I can't imagine being perfectly calm and rational in this situation either. But unless this is a frequent situation and a major source of embarrassment and discomfort for your child, and unless your child actually wants you to intervene on his behalf, I would take a deep breath and let it go. If your son would prefer to stay in his own room next time, he can say so to dad and stepmom.[/quote]

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