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[quote=Anonymous]I’m right there with you OP. I’ve been searching since December too.
Accept that It’s a roller coaster of emotions, frustration, fear, hope, boredom, worry, you will have good days, and really bad days. It’s okay!
I’ve applied to jobs that I thought I was a shoe in for. I’ve done dozens of interviews, sometimes multiple rounds, come close a couple of times but didn’t land the job. The ego definitely takes a hit, but stay positive! Here’s what has helped me a little -
First, Use meds if you need to, no shame, I use a beta blocker when I get panicky.
Try to create structure in your day so that your day isn’t so loose,., throughout the week I exercise, plan a recipe, cook a meal (small achievements) go for walk, job search, try to connect with 3 people each week via phone, zoom or linkedin, attend an industry meeting or happy hour. I don’t do all of these every week but it helps give each day a small task or goal.
Beef up your skills and stay current. I’ve completed a professional credential, and taking another online course in my field, I also regularly read newletters, articles, in my field to stay current. 
Create a list of headhunters you can reach out to. Make a plan to connect with them.
Possibly look for contract work in the meantime
Do a project in your house as a distraction when you just can’t job search anymore. it will give you a sense of accomplishment. for example, I cleaned out the garage. Very satisfying.
Journal, you should see my last entry! but it helps to vent somewhere, and it helps to process emotions. 
Realize that it may take 6-9 months. So implement things today that can sustain you during that period.
Hang in there! Good luck! Sending you positive vibes!

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