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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex and I were terrible married but over 15 years we've become good exes. Our children are now mid 20's and every two weeks or so we talk about them because with 3 twenty somethings there is always something.  We have both remarried and are happy and I know that our children really like that we are both happy and that we get along. My husband doesn't have an issue with it because there is no ex drama. I haven't seen my ex in a few years but I now think of him as a friend even if he was a lousy husband. Most important is that my children like that we get along. We didn't give them a good example of a marriage but maybe they are seeing a good example of something else. [/quote]

This. 
My ex and I get along. We have children together.
We both have only ourselves to blame for getting married to the wrong person.
He is a hoarder, looked down on my family background, and my family did not exist in his world. His family came first. Our children are not his priority. I can only blame myself for walking into that.
I don't know about what he thinks, but he didn't understand the gravity of the marital commitment. I pushed the marital agenda and that's also on me.  So I'm not angry with him.
But we have also known each other for the greater half of our lives and I was involved with his family.

I can get along with him, but not want to be married to him nor in love with that. Actually, I am deeply ashamed to have married someone who had contempt for my background.[/quote]

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