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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Every woman who opened her legs for me on the first date ended up being a mutual on demand hookup. If I like a woman I won't sleep with her on the first date cause I don't want to blow up my chances at a potential relationship. I don't know what happened to women now though so many are ready to hook up by the second date. They are sadly promiscuous just like men.[/quote]

Not all women are like that: to me it’s couple months. If he’s only a sexual draw/no personality match  or only a good person/no sexual attraction I don’t see them after 3 dates.  But if all elements for a relationship seem present, I try to see him for 5-6 dates (about a month), ask about recent std testing, if he plans to sleep with others in parallel etc. I also don’t understand why can’t people just use toys to address the physical itch. It’s not just STDs but new partner often brings really painful UTIs for women. Things shake up during sex and I need to adjust physically to him. Would be too much trouble for a casual one off ONS. But that’s me - maybe other women are not as intimately sensitive to carousel of partners [/quote]

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