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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Could you maybe think of these things as an opportunity to be romantic? Like, instead of going on a date night, you make the rack of lamb together? And instead of going on a weekend trip, you put in the rose bushes or clean out the things you don’t need from the house? [/quote] Op here. Thanks those are good suggestions. However, it’s tough to be romantic when I’m so annoyed with her. We’re are really busy on purpose. We made the decision to prioritize the kids retirement savings and our careers and we knew that meant major sacrifices in other areas and a tough couple of years. And it’s super annoying that now that that we are locked in that camping and gardening are now priorities. [/quote] Like, you aren’t planning to have any date nights, trips, or any kind of intimate time together for several years? That does not sound like a good way to prioritize your retirement savings, man. That sounds like a good way to cut it in half. If you want to prioritize your kids and your retirement savings, just do the stuff your wife wants to do like half the time, and don’t act annoyed about it. [/quote]
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