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[quote=Anonymous]Her attacks are defensiveness. She's probably very embarrassed about these things. I used to get like that with my husband when he got really critical. I was always trying to do better but couldn't, and then got defensive. Not exactly like your wife but I know how embarrassing these things can be! It got better when I embraced my ADHD and stopped feeling like those things were some kind of reflection of my worth as a mom and partner. It also helped that my husband stopped being critical. It doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong but I bet the advice you received to approach the situation with curiosity will go a long way. It's much easier for me to laugh about my foibles and try to do better when I know my partner truly loves and likes me. [/quote]
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