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Reply to "S/O- I can’t stop thinking about my emotional affair partner"
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[quote=Anonymous]You are focused on what you have given up/lost. Maybe focus on what you would lose if you don’t let go of your EA partner? You say you love your DH and he is a good partner. What friends would you lose? How would your lifestyle suffer if your had to sell your house? What would your kids think? Is this guy worth losing half your time with your kids? Does he have kids? They’d probably hate you forever. I’m being harder than the reality because you need a reason to let go. There are people that could have been good partners for you but you shouldn’t break your vows for them. What about the things you don’t know? What if he smells like pumpkins when he sleeps? What if he isn’t kind and tender about certain things? What if he is horrible in bed? Assume every bad thing you don’t know is true. Build a narrative that makes him inferior to your husband and focus on why your DH is a great guy that you love. [/quote]
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