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[quote=Anonymous]I'm 44 but married. It sounds high maintenance to me because I'm imagining our nights and if I had someone who wanted to talk to me on the phone versus a text every single night, I would find it annoying.

When my husband or I travel, whether for work or for fun, we don't talk on the phone every night. If we're with our friends for the weekend, we will text during the day but we don't have to tell each other what we're doing all the time. That sounds super controlling.

What's interesting is if you were a man asking about wanting your girlfriend to call you every single night I think people would say that's a red flag and he's trying to control you. To me, it's the same with the genders reversed.

In any event, at the end of the day, if that's what you need and he won't give it to you, then this isn't the relationship for you. That's really all you need to know. Whether others think it's controlling or high maintenance or whatever is a moot point. If you need it and he won't give it to you then it's time to move on and look for someone who gives you what you need. [/quote]

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