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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had GF like this and it was fine because it really as just a check in.

If we had something to discuss we did, but otherwise I knew it wasn't going to turn into a 30 minute conversation where I'm dying for a pause to head into the "I'll let you go now" routine that could take another 10-15 mins.[/quote]

OP here. That is how I see it as a check in. I’ve always had those in serious relationships. It’s never been something I’ve had to discuss before. The relationship just naturally evolved into that once we realized we were into each other. I see it as similar to a good morning text. I don’t think it’s controlling at all when me and a partner have a check-in routine. No one is making the other person do it. We are doing it because we want to connect and don’t want the other person to worry. It helps to lay a groundwork of consistency in the relationship in my opinion. It’s the precursor to a partner coming home every night should the relationship get to living together. [/quote]

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