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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your AC was a very challenging kid, have they matured to the point where you think they would make a good romantic partner and parent? Or do you think the issues will always somewhat be there and come out?

We spent time recently with long-time friends whose DS had a lot of anger issues, lying, verbal lashing out, etc. as a child. I’m glad that they seem to be thriving now in college, but I can’t help but think to myself that I wouldn’t want my DD to date someone who has that in the past.  Yet one might think the person was fine/ok upon initially getting to know them.

We also have a friend whose son may be undiagnosed ASD and had no friends growing up. Social skills seem to have improved a bit since being in college. Of course, there are exceptions to every generalization, but would you want your DD to date this person?

All theoretical, just morning musings.[/quote]

I wouldn't want my DD to date this person but if she wants to then would recommend dating for longer than one year, living together and having some premarital counseling so both understand what they are getting into.

Obviously, parents can't forbid anyone from dating anyone. OP, if this is an arranged/blind set up, don't ask her to entertain it.

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