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[quote=Anonymous]I am sorry, this is one of the hardest things to go through as a parent. As posters have said, the first focus is on DD, not the boyfriend. Make sure she has the right supports coming out of this. This is serious. Regarding her boyfriend, I would tell her you love her & anyone she chooses to be with. At this point, do not discourage the relationship. Be neutral on that, some of her distress may come from the push/pull she feels between her boyfriend & DW/DS. Encourage everyone to go neutral on that front. Be the safe space that loves her unconditionally, be open to meet BF if she wants, but don’t insist or push it. BF is just 1 part of her life. Don’t all focus on it & avoid other issues she is clearly struggling with. [/quote]
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