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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know of a marriage like this. But the person I'm close to doesn't want to get out because they don't want to have a second divorce. But they are also miserable a lot of the time because their partner is rigid, demanding, belittling, and controlling.

I know my friend love their spouse, but they also reallllly dislike their spouse. It's easy to see from the outside that the marriage should not be salvaged because one of the people in the marriage is not interested in working on themself or compromising. [/quote]

+1. I'd say we know the same couple, but I honestly do not think the couple I know has friends, and I am betting the same is true of the couple you know.  She is staying because of money, but it just keeps unraveling, while he keeps unraveling.  He is absolutely miserable, criticizes others like it is a sport, has multiple professional and personal issues, has terrible coping mechanisms, and it extremely immature and anti social. The anti social tendencies are endless.  It would be an awful way to live - which puzzles me, because my other couple friends seem normal and well adjusted, competent adults. It tells me that she is likely also not dealing with a full deck. [/quote]

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