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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]52 and I'm dry as the Sahara and have absolutely zero libido.  Honestly, the thought of even French kissing my husband feels almost as icky as if he were a relative.  It's astonishing to me because I was the high drive one in this relationship by far.  But we grew far apart after having a child in our early 40's and honestly, he has changed so much politically and morally that I doubt we'd even be Facebook friends at this point if we weren't married and raising a kid.

Even if I were given a choice between a night with George Clooney, Brad Pitt, or Idris Elba, I can't even imagine feeling sexual desire.  I'd definitely say yes for a chance to hang out with naked Idris Elba because he is such delicious eye candy and seems fun and interesting, but at this point the only physical contact I'd want is either a back massage or falling asleep on his chest while he pets my hair.  No genitals need to be involved.  It's like mine are just...permanently offline.[/quote]

I love this post!  :lol:  (Except I'm sad that your husband became a MAGA idiot with age.)

Personally I would love to have Idris over for dinner, and George and his wife too! (I can live without meeting Brad.) I would get more pleasure from a long conversation with those three - Idris can bring a +1, too - than from any kind of sex.

I don't get the obsession with sex as we age.  As far as I can tell, it's just one more thing that is driven primarily by the male ego and not the female.  When I was in the worst of perimenopause before I got on HRT, I spent a lot of time in menopause support groups online and it broke my heart to see the posts from so many women whose husbands were being emotionally abusive of them because they weren't getting the amount of sex they wanted, and didn't care at all that the PIV sex was HURTING their wives.

The older I get the more grateful I am that I quit men in my early 40s. I'm sure there are some unicorns, but every day I read things on this board that make me realize my own real life experiences which weren't great were not as bad as they could've been - which was mostly because I never let myself get too entangled. As soon as that selfish, momma's boy entitled mindset rose to the surface - usually not long into the dating or relationship - I dumped them. [/quote]

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