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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should let him know that you found out.

You should then ask him to ask his sister if you can go.

Respect the answer you get back.

If you aren't invited, there's a reason, and crashing is wrong.  Who knows what it is.  But it's the wedding couple's day, and a respectful person would not seek to detract from it.

This might mean your SIL has permanently written off your relationship.  But so what.  If you are already estranged it doesn't really matter if you are not there.[/quote]

OP here. Is it not wrong to invite someone without spouse? What god united, men can’t separate. We are a family unit and in-laws are all devout Catholics. [/quote]

OMG.  You are not invited! She does not want YOU there.  Why do you want to be where you are not wanted. Be gracious.

If I were you - I would tell DH I know about the invite and I am hurt.  I would tell hem I wanted to go for family unity and I don't understand why I wasn't invited.  Then the ball is in his court.  He needs to smooth this over with his family. If you are all devout catholics, as you say, then YOU should be his priority.  If you are not his priority, there is a problem in your marriage.   But honestly, you sound like the sort of person who creates waves and drama.  I would never invite extra drama, so this wouldn't happen to me.[/quote]

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