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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I don’t necessarily think they are challenging. But I what I do believe is that women have accomplished so much on their own and are independent these days that very few men can enhance their lives. If they want kids? They don’t need a man for that. If they want us?plenty of horny men ready to answer the call. They don’t need money from men. They have their own houses/apartments/investments etc.

Men need to account for this new reality.[/quote]

I am a man, and I think so as well. Specifically, if I do not have kids, why should I support (indirectly) the women who do via spending on infrastructure that is useless to me? You should take care of all of their needs since you do not need a man.

If the new reality is that if you do not need man, live up to it.

Do not complain about work/life balance issues (the impact of having kids is completely on you), school funding, healthcare, etc. It would be great if women did not need money from men since there would be little reason for much state and local spending. For next war, let them draft you so you can fight to protect them.

Do not respond with BS about "spending on ____ (e.g., schools, healthcare for single mothers, etc.) helps the next generation, which helps us all." I can more than support myself now and after I retire. Do you want to be independent? Be independent, as long you never look to me to help you maintain it. [/quote]

Actually, in Scandinavian countries where this infrastructure is provided by the government, women are in fact not complaining and are reporting the highest levels of happiness in the world. The fathers are true equals: take parental leave, etc. Marriage percentage is very low, as women prefer to stay unmarried to keep the benefits and the freedom to move on from a slacker man

Women who are empty nesters in their 40-50s are incredibly self-sufficient. You take out the childcare of equation - they end up better positioned for retirement vs men. Men drink, engage in risky sexual behaviors, gamble, waste money on women etc. Women are driving charities, traveling, investing in self care etc.

You can only be successful with dating women like that by being a truly equal, caring, communicative partner. Because in everything else she'll match. Just so not to be called a gold digger or a dinner whore
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