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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"I want to know that isn’t going anywhere." This is such an understandable wish, but there are no guarantees in life. That said, I think you need to figure out what you need to feel safer in the relationship. Do you just need to hear the words he loves you or yes, he's committed to you long term? Maybe try talking this through with a therapist.[/quote] Agree that there are no guarantees. Even if he pledges that he will be with you forever, that may not be the case, as you know. If this is the only hurdle, I would not throw away the relationship. It sounds lovely & the future isn’t guaranteed for any of us, so I wouldn’t worry about telling each other what we will be in 10 or 20 years. If you would be happy with this life together in 10 years, stay. If not, go. And don’t worry about other people asking you what your relationship status is. None of their business.[/quote]
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